A Reddit user shared a troubling experience on the “AITA” subreddit, recounting how she overheard her husband and his family while on a vacation she was initially uninvited to join. Despite her husband’s hesitation, she convinced him to let her come along, hoping to bond with his family.
During the vacation, while preparing fruit salad, she overheard her mother-in-law questioning why she had nowhere else to spend the weekend. Shocked, she listened as her husband complained about her being pushy and an inconvenience.
Feeling hurt and unappreciated after spending the vacation cooking, cleaning, and caring for the kids, she immediately booked a ticket home. Her husband was angry, accusing her of disrespect and immaturity for leaving abruptly.
When she explained overhearing their conversation, her husband blamed her for eavesdropping and insisted his family needed time to warm up to her on their terms. He criticized her for leaving, claiming it left a bad impression on his family.
The Redditor felt betrayed by her husband’s lack of support and understanding. Despite her efforts to connect with his family, she was made to feel unwanted and unwelcome. The incident left her questioning her relationship with her husband and his family’s acceptance of her.