A guy shared his problem online about his mom and ex-wife pushing him to take care of a kid that might not be his. He and his ex-wife split because she cheated and got pregnant, but she doesn’t know if he’s the dad. Two years later, she asked his mom for help because her new boyfriend left when he found out the kid might not be his.
His mom really wants grandkids, especially since his brother can’t have kids. She keeps pressuring him to help his ex-wife without doing a paternity test. He wants to be sure before he helps financially or emotionally.
His family and friends got mad when he asked for a DNA test. They think he’s being selfish and irresponsible. But he’s worried about taking care of a kid who might not be his.
People on Reddit supported him, saying he should get the test and not feel guilty. They think he’s doing the right thing by protecting himself. It’s tough, but he’s standing firm on getting the test done before making any decisions.
He hopes people understand his side and won’t pressure him into something he’s unsure about. He wants to make the right choice, even if it’s hard.