Is My Reaction Justified After My Adult Stepdaughter and Her Kids Made a Mess of Our Home?

A woman shared her story about living with her husband and his 36-year-old daughter, Trudi, and her family. Trudi moved in because they had money problems. They agreed that Trudi would stay in a separate apartment, but things got messy.

There were conflicts about keeping things clean and being responsible. The woman got upset and left her apartment because of the mess. She didn’t want Trudi to stay there because of the bad conditions.

Her husband wanted her to come back and stick to the original plan, but she insisted on cleanliness and Trudi’s family moving out first. People reading the story understood her frustration and blamed her husband for not supporting her.

The woman faced difficulties when her husband’s daughter and family moved in. They agreed on living arrangements, but things didn’t work out due to cleanliness issues. She left her place and wanted things sorted before going back. Many felt she was right, and her husband should’ve been more supportive.